If we are willing to, surely, we will learn

All of the times, we tend to blame others for our misfortunes and sadness. Why are we like that? Hmmm, we are like that coz we are just simply humans. And humans as we are will always forget that we are the one causing our problems. We tend to blame others when in fact it is all up to us of what we did with our lives and how we reacted to certain unfavorable situation that came our way. Anyhow, we will learn from our misfortune and sadness if we are willing to!